The song 'It Took Me By Surprise' by Maria Mena delves into a toxic relationship where one person realizes the harm they have caused to their partner. The lyrics depict the regret and realization of pushing someone to their breaking point due to misunderstandings and lack of communication, leading to fear and resentment in the partner.
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Themes
Emotional turmoil
• I would react badly to the slightest hint of hesitance
• I'd cry knowing how my tears felt like acid burning through his skin
Miscommunication
• Mistook my silence for punishment as it had been all these years
• He lacked the words to let me know
Regret and responsibility
• now I can see it is my fault
• I've pushed this man as far as he could go